/r/JustNoSO (For when your SO is actually the problem)."If you lie down with dogs, you'll get fleas." Not an acronym, just a metaphor for a normal person picking up some disordered personality traits by proximity to a JustNO. The thick miasma of negativity that clouds your judgment in dealing with JustNOs. You are the grey rock.įear, Obligation, Guilt. You are bland, uninteresting, you lack any sort of emotions for her to manipulate. A look of sour disapproval/pissiness mastered by old ladies in which their lips are pursed to resemble a cat's asshole.Ī technique to discourage overbearing MIL from taking any interest in you. You end up the bad guy.įamily Of Origin The people to whom you're related by blood.Ĭat-Butt Face. What a personality disordered MIL will do if you "catch" her in a lie or confront her with her wrongdoing. She heard you.ĭeny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. State your opinion or boundary clearly, but only once. Circular logic will be used to reinforce MIL's point of view. Just like the flying monkeys sent by the Wicked Witch of the West in The Wizard of Oz. A flying monkey is any person sent by MIL to gather/deliver information or generally wreak havoc. Scapegoats suffer decades of all sorts of abuse.įlying Monkey. The Scapegoat is the other child (or every other child). Nothing they do is wrong, so they tend to fall in line and back up MIL. The Golden Child is the favorite child of the personality disordered MIL. May also include SC - Structured Contact, although this one is very rare in our sub. Used to describe the degree to which one has cut a certain family member out of their lives. Low-Contact/Very Low-Contact/No Contact, respectively. Someone so irritating that even normal things, such as eating crackers, annoys the shit out of you. Could also stand for "Dear Son/Daughter", usually OP will clarify.įuture (JustNoMIL is not responsible for any other word you choose to supply here in your mind.)īitch Eating Crackers. While in most places it stands for "Dear", there usually isn't a lot of behavior deserving a sweet term of endearment in this sub. Mother-in-law, father-in-law, brother-in-law, sister-in-law a preceding S indicates a step relationship.ĭamn Husband, Damn Wife, Damn Spouse. We also do not allow commentors to offer money or gifts or to start fundraising on an OP's behalf. This includes linking to amazon wishlists, gofundmes, appeals on your profile or subreddit, or links to other sites. We do not allow for posts or comments that request money or gifts. Titles containing words that are particularly likely to be triggering (see wiki) will be auto-filtered.ħ. It is recommended to add "Content Warning" or "CW" to your title as well, but not required.
Any comment with "cartoon-level" violence MUST: A) indicate that you don't actually suggest users do what you suggest, and 2) include actual, usable advice.įor posts with triggering content a brief description is required in the first line of the post (e.g. No posting personal info, including faces or identifying tattoos or marks. We have a zero tolerance policy for armchair advice (medical, legal, or otherwise) that is damaging, factually incorrect, or egregiously shitty, sexism, racism, xenophobia, transphobia, ableism, stereotyping, slut/body/kink-shaming, anti-vaxx bullshit, and just generally being a butt.
TWISTED TINA UPDATE
For those posting live updates requiring immediate guidance, if you are within 6 hours, please update your original post. No need to apologize for the long post no one's going to read it who doesn't think it's worth reading, so rest assured you are wasting no one's time! Only one person per account is allowed, and those multiple accounts that are discussing the same person must stick to once a day as well. We encourage you to use up all the text space when making your post-don't feel like you need to break a long story into ten chapters when it would fit into one post. You can find more information on post flairs and what they mean in the wiki.įor those who are posting past stories, refrain from creating more than one thread in a 24 hour period per mother-figure. Comments that violate the spirit of that request will be removed. OP’s will select a flair for their post indicating the kind of support that they need. FIL names prior to May 2016 are grandfathered in.īe kind, be respectful, be supportive.
Please do a search before naming your MIL. All others must use the acronym dictionary listed in the sidebar or a basic descriptive name (e.g. Nicknames are reserved for MILs (or moms). If you know your SO is also part of the problem you're welcome to mention it, but otherwise users are barred from offering SO-related advice. Currently step-moms, and grandmothers are included in the umbrella "mom" term. Other people can absolutely be involved but they cannot be given their own thread.
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